Table of Contents
INTRODUCTION
- This Is Not a Posture Book
Why “sit up straight” failed you, what Alexander’s ideas really offer, and what will actually change in your life.
PART I — Switching On Easy Mode
- Your Body Is Not Wrong
Seeing your current habits as attempts to help, not proof of failure, and making the first small shift in how you use yourself.
- Gravity as an Ally
Letting the ground do its job so you stop “holding yourself up” and feel supported instead of strained.
- The Head–Neck–Back Secret
A plain-language version of Alexander’s key relationship — how freeing the neck unlocks the rest of you.
- Doing Less, Getting More
Why extra effort makes you stiff and clumsy, and how to subtract unnecessary work from everything you do.
PART II — Real-Life Routines
- Standing in Real Life
Queues, conversations, kitchen tasks, and mirrors — simple checks that keep standing light, grounded, and calm.
- Walking That Feels Like Gliding
Turning everyday walking into a smooth, easy reset instead of a march or a drag.
- Sitting Without Destroying Yourself
Working, driving, and relaxing in chairs without slowly folding into them.
- Screens Without Shrinking
How to use phones and laptops without collapsing into the screen and losing breath, space, and attention.
- Lying, Resting, and Recharging
Floor work and simple rest positions inspired by Alexander that let your body reset itself.
- Transitions: The Hidden Gold
Getting up, bending down, and moving between tasks as built-in training for a new way of using your body.
PART III — High-Skill Situations
- Being Seen: Social and Dating Moments
How your body behaves when you care what someone thinks, and how to stay soft, grounded, and available.
- Bodies That Speak: Presenting and Leading
Letting your body back your voice when you speak up, teach, or lead — without acting or posing.
- Training Without Locking Up
Bringing Alexander principles into strength work, yoga, and movement practice so you gain power without rigidity.
- Travel, Stress, and Long Days
Airports, cars, offices, and late nights — how to get through demanding days without ending them as a knot.
PART IV — When You Crash (and How to Come Back)
- When the Old Shape Grabs You
Noticing when you shrink or harden, and using a simple in-the-moment sequence to come back online.
- BodyRising on Bad Days
What to do when you don’t want to “practice” anything — minimum effective moves to keep the thread alive.
PART V — Making It Your New Normal
APPENDICES